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01.01.09
Posted in Relationships Parlor at 11:05 am by
Choosing your wedding rings is one of the most exciting parts of the whole experience. Your wedding rings are more than keepsakes and are signs of the love and trust you share.
When you decide to choose your wedding rings where should you start? The first thing to do when you are ready to look for wedding rings is to decide how much you want to spend. Many people decide that a month’s salary is right while others spend much more or much less.
Wedding rings can be purchased almost anywhere. There are even discount stores that have wedding rings. On the other end of the spectrum you will be able to find wedding rings at very expensive and exclusive stores and boutiques.
After you have decided on the wedding ring budget you can start visiting various jewelry stores. You will soon realize which wedding rings really appeal to you.
If you want to surprise your bride but still need a little guidance you can take her to look at wedding rings. It won’t be long and you will be able to discern which wedding rings she likes the best.
Maybe you would rather choose the wedding rings together. Another great way to choose wedding rings is to go online and look at all the choices available. When you look at wedding rings online you will find thousands of rings to choose from. Just make sure the sites are reputable and use high quality gems and materials.
If you want to design your own wedding rings you can look at jewelry stores that feature this choice. This can sometimes be more expensive but the end result will be wedding rings that are very unique. You may also be able to find websites that allow you design your wedding rings. You can look at all the possibilities and design a special set of wedding rings together.
With these wedding rings….
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Posted in Relationships Parlor at 2:49 am by
Everyone hopes to have a picture-perfect wedding day.
Getting to that point takes untold amounts of time, money,
energy and patience. Even the tiniest detail cannot be
left unchecked, if we have any hope of eluding Murphy’s
Law. These days, brides-to-be must even consider potential
allergic reactions to their flowers, in addition to the
more traditional details. It’s enough to crush the faint
of heart.
A big item on the wedding planning list is the flowers for
the church, the wedding party and the reception. It that
goes wrong, it can be a real disaster. Many problems can
arise in this area, such as flowers not being delivered on
time, not fresh, or not the flowers the bride ordered. Just
imagine if your perfectly orchestrated color scheme is
ruined because the wrong colored flowers arrived. Just try
sending them back or getting new ones in time. Besides the
ambiance of the wedding being ruined, there is now an upset
bride. Taking certain precautions may avoid this disaster.
The first detail to be attended to is the color scheme you
are choosing . Be sure to be decide this well advance, or
you will guarantee yoursel a headache.You will usually base
the colors of the flowers on the colors of the bridesmaids’
dresses, so decide on that before you start to look at
flowers. Stick to your color scheme and then pick flowers
in that color scheme. Be definite about the color. Some
flowers are available in just about every colors, while
others are limited. Don’t try to pick a specific type of
flower, it may not work with that color scheme, just start
with the color. Bring swatches and be ready to complement
rather than match. Before that first crucial meeting with
the florist, certain steps will prepare you.
Even though, nowadays, many flowers are available all year
long, you need to take the season of your wedding into
account when you are choosing your flowers. There is a
certain charm added to the wedding if the flowers suit the
season. Sunflowers in the middle of winter may not convey
the tone you want, plus out of season flowers arel probably
be more expensive. Formal church weddings need more
sophisticated arrangements than a wedding on the beach, so
you need to consider the type of wedding you’re planning.
When you are planning the budget for your flowers, keep
your total wedding budget in mind. A rule of thumb is to
spend ten to fifteen percent of your total wedding budget
on the flowers. Spending more than that will cause you to
skimp on other more important items. Discuss your budget
and its limitations honestly with your florist at the very
beginning. He can work with you to explore different ideas
that will make your day perfect and still keep this lovely
part of your wedding in budget.
You also have to consider the size of the bouquets for both
you and your bridesmaids,the shade of your gown, if you are
going to have an additional bouquet to toss, and the
temperature of the season, if you will be outdoors for any
lenghth of time. (Many flowers react badly to very cold
temperatures.) And as if that is not enough to worry about,
you need to worry about pollen that may stain your gown.
(For example, lilies should have stamens removed because
of this problem.) Be flexible, and make sure you take the
advice of your florist.He wants your day to be perfect too.
About The Author
Peter Carnater runs the website Flowers Niche which is a site dedicated to providing all the very latest news and views related to flowers. This is a complete flowers research center providing easy access to everything flowers related. Please vistit http://www.flowersniche.com for any questions or comments about this article.
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12.21.08
Posted in Relationships Parlor at 9:58 am by
Few modern weddings manage to avoid the ritual of wedding
favors. Traditionally, wedding favors are usually placed on the
table, in front of every guest, although this idea seems to have
diminished, in recent years. Choices of Wedding Favors
Trying to select a small gift that is going to appeal to the
entire wedding party is tricky, to say the least. Arguably it is
impossible! However, there are ways to avoid giving
inappropriate wedding favors, while also keeping the budget in
check. Why not simply create a selection of sweets and
chocolates that can be placed in the center of the table for all
to pick at. This is a great way of allowing people to choose
their own gifts, without having to worry about issues of taste.
With a small, intimate party, it is actually possible to
select gifts, individually. This is only really possible when
the party is very small; normally a maximum of thirty is
appropriate for these types of wedding favors. If you take this
approach, be certain that position the wedding favors correctly
and inline with the table settings or you might just find that
your carefully selected wedding favors end up in the wrong
hands! Edibles are always a good choice when it comes to
wedding favors as many people are getting quite hungry after the
ceremony and photographs. Sugared almonds are considered to be
the traditional wedding favors. However, the fact of the matter
is that not many people actually enjoy sugared almonds, so it
may be better to consider an alternative. Why not use chocolates
or sweets instead? If you are in a warm climate chocolates will
need to be stored in a refrigerator until the last minute, so
make sure that you have this facility. Alternatives to Wedding
Favors Moving away from the more traditional types of wedding
favors, you may wish to consider a more modern and innovative
approach. By daring to be different, not only can you save
yourself some money, but you are also more likely to make a
lasting impression on your guests. Some different ideas for
wedding favors include a lottery card each, but think about how
you would react if someone wins big-time on the ticket that you
have bought! If this thought does not appeal, then consider
having a raffle where everyone is given a ticket and there is a
range of prizes available. Another great idea could be to
place a bowl of goodies such as chocolates sweets and alcohol
miniatures, in the center of the table, allowing a bit of
potluck for the guests. If you have a bit more time on your
hands, you could wrap the wedding favors up and allow guests to
select their own and take a chance on the outcome. One of the
key things to remember with wedding favors is that you want to
generate discussion. When guests arrive at a wedding reception,
they are often slightly shy or timid and having a game involving
wedding favors will do wonders to break the ice!
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11.21.08
Posted in Relationships Parlor at 4:26 am by
Wedding toasts are a great way to wish the new couple well, but it can be
hard to get it just right if you’ve never done it before. If you feel a lot of emotion about the union, it may be even more difficult to get the toast just right. Keeping it simple really helps, as well as keeping it short. Remember that a toast is simply a way to let the new couple know that you are excited for them, and that you were happy that they made you a part of their day. The more you try to put into a toast the more complicated it can be, so don’t try to pack too much into the toast.
Wedding Speech
Below is a very simple toast that you can use regardless of how well you know
both of the bride and the groom. This is also a great way to make a toast when
you really want to wish the couple well but you aren’t too sure what to say!
“First, I wanted to say congratulations to Bill and Nancy! I am so happy
for the both of you and I know that today is the first day of what will be a
very long marriage. I also want to thank the two of you for inviting me and
making me a part of your big day. I know that there will be many more
celebrations of your love and your marriage in the future!”
Below is a more intimate toast that you will find works well for close
friends and family and will help you convey a bit more personal emotion.
“Congratulations, you two! I know that everyone is saying great things to
you, but I had to get up and really express how happy I am for you. I know
that both of you have been looking forward to this day for quite awhile, and
I have to say that it couldn’t have been more beautiful. I know that you
have a lot of great plans for the future and I can’t wait to sit back and
watch them unfold for you. Congratulations, Bill and Nancy!”
As you can see, you can keep it really simple or you can add a bit more
personalization to a toast. Usually a toast is just a few minutes long, so you
don’t need to get into long stories or convoluted hopes for the new couple.
Instead, keep things short and sweet but be sure to convey your happiness for
the new couple. If you don’t know the personalities of both the bride and the
groom well, keep humor limited and clean, just so that you are sure you don’t
offend anyone.
Article by James Nardel, expert author at EasyWeddingToasts.com. For more information on free wedding speeches and wedding toasts, free toasting tips with speech samples visit http://www.easyweddingtoasts.com
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11.20.08
Posted in Relationships Parlor at 9:00 pm by
Many women feel they are putting their relationship first by spending all their free time with their partners. But too much time together can not only drain you of your conversation, but also your attractiveness and your self-esteem.
Newly-wed Lydia found herself slipping into the routine of skipping gym and collapsing on the sofa with her husband in front of the telly with a glass of wine and dinner on a tray. After the exhaustion of planning the wedding, it was natural to want to nest at home together, and money was tight after all the wedding bills. But it was causing the spark in their relationship to fade. Lydia was becoming more of a boring sloth than a sparkling witty siren.
Lydia realised she wanted more than just a comfortable relationship. Working with The Wedding Coach, Lydia followed the following 8 steps towards getting things revved up.
1. Get out there - Go out at least twice a week without your partner. See a movie with a friend, or join a book club, or meet a mate for a coffee. Your time spent apart will mean you have more to talk about when you are together, and he will miss you when you are gone. Parting is such sweet sorrow!
2. Get creative - Find a hobby. Look at your local council’s website - you will find loads of interesting adult courses in the evening or on weekends. The courses are fun, inexpensive, and cater for beginners. It will bring out the playful child in you, and who could resist that?
3. Get active - Take up some type of exercise. You will feel and look better for doing it and you will come back glowing and radiant. Think of all those sexy pheromones in your sweat - he will find you irresistible!
4. Get gorgeous - Treat yourself like a princess. Your partner loves you whatever you look like, but you will feel better about yourself for making the effort. If you are the type who lives in jeans, try wearing only skirts or dresses for a week. Do something every day that reinforces your femininity.
5. Get organised - Cut down your TV by 1 hour a day, and spend that time getting your life in order. Sort out the bills, the thank-you letters, your will and insurance. These are things that can quickly become a point of conflict in a relationship, and you will feel in control by knowing they are all sorted.
6. Get planning - Set some goals for you and your partner. Perhaps it is a holiday to Peru, or buying a rental property together. Work on the plan together. This is a great way to build your relationship and get you working as a team.
7. Get focused -Work out what you want to accomplish in your life - be it to have children, or see the Northern Lights, or own your own business. Set up a plan for how you are going to get there. The last thing in life you want is to wake up 10 years from now and resent your partner for all the things you haven’t done. And you will probably find your motivation is a source of inspiration for your partner.
8. Get support - Don’t be afraid to ask for help. Talk to your partner about what he can do to support you, and don’t forget to ask what you can do to support him. If you are the type who lets thing slide, and whose plans fall by the wayside, consider hiring a life coach to help keep you on track.
It might seem like an effort to follow the steps above, or that you are spending too much time away from your partner, but variety is the spice of life, and your relationship will wither in the face of boredom. Remember that you and your relationship are worth it.
Josie Hill - the Wedding Coach - specialises in helping brides cope with the overwhelm that can come with planning a wedding, and with helping newly married women manage the transition from bride to wife. You can email her to book your complimentary coaching session on josie@weddingcoaching.co.uk.
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11.19.08
Posted in Relationships Parlor at 10:26 pm by
The origins of the Celts dates back to prehistoric times when they emerged as a
group of loosely knit tribes with a common culture and language.
Celtic settlements stretched from Turkey and the Balkans right across Western
Europe. But it was the rise of the Roman Empire that would expose the lack of
cohesion between the various Celtic tribes and would lead to them being overrun,
expelled from their territories and being pushed back to the western fringes of the
continent.
Although the ancient Celts flourished across Europe, it is in Ireland where their
traditions have been most preserved.
One aspect of this culture that still survives today is the artwork and this is most
commonly seen in jewellery such as celtic wedding rings.
Their artwork was believed to be very symbolic often being based on nature using
images of birds and animals and fish. The Celts believed firmly in the
interconnectedness of all life and produced the familiar Celtic Knots, which are
interlaced patterns with no beginning and no end.
Although perhaps the true significance of these patterns has been lost over the
millennia, Celtic designs remain increasingly popular in our modern world.
The Claddagh is a traditional symbol of love and friendship and is thought to have
originated from Claddagh in Galway as far back as the 16th century since when has
been worn by many as a wedding ring and as a symbol of love.
The design of the Claddagh consists of a heart as a symbol of love, a crown as a
symbol of fidelity or loyalty and the hands depicted friendship. Tradition states that
if you are spoken to you should wear the Claddagh on your left hand facing inward
but if you are unattached it should be worn facing outward on the right hand.
Celtic crosses, which predate Christianity, can symbolize the four quarters of the
earth and or the four elements - earth wind and fire. They are equal armed crosses
which are enclosed or backed by a circle. Following the introduction of Christianity,
it became more common to see Celtic Crosses on top of a matching pedestal, which
gave it a more elongated look. Celtic crosses are often worn as jewellery such as
rings or on chains around the neck.
Geometric designs have always feature prominently in Celtic artwork with spirals,
chevrons, scrolls and knot work. Many of these patterns can be seen decorating stone carvings or ancient manuscripts and religious books.
The Celtic spirals are very symbolic with the single spiral generally thought to
signify growth expansion and cosmic energy.
The dual centred spiral found often on stone carvings signifies duality and nature
and is associated with motifs from other cultures such as the Ying Yang symbol.
Celtic knot work designs remain popular today and can vary from single elegant
knot patterns to complex intricate interlaced patterns.
Although the symbolism of celtic designs may have been lost, many of the designs
remain popular today and will often be seen used in the design of jewellery and in
particular Celtic Wedding rings.
Written by John Lewis of Love2Have who specialise in traditional gold celtic wedding rings handcrafted in the UK.
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11.18.08
Posted in Relationships Parlor at 8:31 pm by
Choosing your wedding bouquet is an important part of the planning process as bouquets of flowers have always been a big attraction at any wedding. Bouquets are already part of the wedding tradition on all races. A bouquet of flowers symbolizes a blossoming maiden and reflects her emotions.
Therefore, wedding bouquets should be carefully selected and planned the same way you plan for your wedding gown. Here are just a few tips in choosing your wedding bouquet:
1. It is recommended that you choose a flower that is on season to save money and time. This will not give you hard time trying to order the flower as well.
2. You can choose other alternatives like silk flowers especially if the flower you would like to use is not in season. Silk flowers are also suited in formal weddings; fresh picked flowers may not fit a very formal party.
3. Your bouquet should not drown you. Be sure that it will not cover your figure. If you are petite, the weight of the flower might be too heavy for your built and may affect your posture and how you carry your gown. Remember that your bouquet should not be too big so as not to cover your elegant gown and should be easy to carry.
4. The flowers you chose should last for the entire day. Make sure that your flowers still hold up even at the end of the day so that you will still look glamorous when taken pictures. Using a bouquet holder is suggested to keep the flowers fresh during the entire day. Also take the advice of your florist on which flowers easily wilt so that you can avoid choosing them.
5. Don’t let your florist imagine the flower design you like. You may take a picture or a printed copy of the bouquet style you prefer. Also bring a sample fabric of the gowns so that the florist can choose the correct shade of flower that will match the color of the gowns. Some bouquets may be decorated with ribbons, lace and silk materials. You can advise the florist on what specific designs would you like to add for your flowers.
6. Why not choose a flower that has special meaning? That will not be difficult since most flowers have their meanings. Stephanotis stands for happiness in marriage, Rose means love and being true, and Tulips stand for perfect love and declaration of love.
7. One of the first things to consider when opting for a bouquet is the style. Choose the bouquet style that will suit you and your personality. Bouquets are more personal nowadays and reflect the brides’ personalities. For Nosegays, where flowers are clustered in a round form, can vary in sophistication and will fit any personality. In Cascade bouquets, flowers are arranged in a descending form. These bouquets are voluptuous and can be the center of attention.
They are recommended for traditional weddings. There are flowers where stems are wrapped around in ribbons and they are called Hand-tied bouquets. These bouquets bring a casual aura and are recommended for garden weddings. There are also Contemporary bouquets where flowers are arranged in style but with no geometric form. These arrangements of flowers represent the individuality of a bride and are mostly used in sophisticated weddings.
8. The top wedding flowers are Rose, Lilly, Orchid, Hyacinth, Tulip, Stephanotis and Daisy. You may want to follow the trend and choose these flowers for your bouquet.
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